This is a well made video that reflects one of the key aspects of Imago Relationship Theory... don't try and fix your partner even when the problem is so incredibly obvious to you... the only person who can fix you is you, and the one person your partner does not want to be fixed by is... you. Read my earlier post on being your wife's therapist...
anyway... the guy does the guy thing initially, even getting a bit steamed and even offended when his good advice is ignored, but finally gets around to simply listening and validating... and thus he begins to get a handle on the skills that are going to lead him to a better relationship.....
enjoy.
http://vimeo.com/66753575
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